Canning and making fertility decisions

Summers are always busy for us.  Most of our weekends are filled with family outings, weddings, showers, or canning.  The garden is looking great this year, so we have been busy now trying to can the beans and tomatoes.  A few weeks ago we canned 30 jars of cinnamon peach jam. This past weekend we canned 10 quarts of tomatoes from the first round of tomato picking from the garden.

So we’ve definitely been keeping busy.

I’ve been diligently writing my blog posts for Mom.com’s “Conception Diaries” every week, so clearly I have in turn been neglecting this blog.  My ol’ reliable Bessie.  I found out writing this week’s article for the series that I am having a hard time pulling up a Word document and writing a post. I finally logged into my blog, started a new post, and wrote the entire thing in there, copying and pasting it later into Word to submit.  Because this is where I am comfortable.  Where I can shed virtual Internet tears, swear like a sailor, and tell you all what is really going on in my head.  So I figure if I write it in here, then put it in Word, I can keep my authenticity writing for Mom.com.  Everyone wins.

The latest article here is all about our consult with the fertility clinic in Texas.  Read it.  Tell me what you think.  This decision about what to do is not coming easy.  I could spend the next year trying to come to a decision on what to do next.  I hate it and it makes me crabby.

Next week’s post is all about my feelings surrounding the meeting we had this past weekend with the psychologist for the donor egg program at our clinic.  Talk about opening up a can of worms.

On a happier note, though, I just found out we are officially on the wait list for a fresh donor cycle at our clinic!

18 Comments

  1. August 20, 2014 / 9:40 am

    Great posts!! And yay for making the waiting list!

  2. August 20, 2014 / 12:00 pm

    I love all the posts, Risa! I can't wait to continue reading how both of your journey's go! Good luck to you and Chris!

  3. August 20, 2014 / 12:57 pm

    Wahoo glad you are on the wait list!!! That jam sounds delicious!

  4. August 20, 2014 / 1:37 pm

    I am not normally a jelly or jam person at all but wow does that cinnamon peach jam sound wonderful! Of course I love anything cinnamon 🙂 This is wonderful news that you are on the waiting list!!

  5. August 20, 2014 / 7:30 pm

    WOW! This is SUPER exciting! Do you think you'll go through with both cycles or are you using one as a back up plan, like get on the list now in case X doesn't work?

  6. August 20, 2014 / 9:34 pm

    That's a lot of tomatoes! Canning and preserving are on my list of things to learn! Congratulations on getting on the waitlist! That's so exciting!

  7. August 20, 2014 / 11:08 pm

    i am glad you made the list! do you read dreaming of dimples?! she just went through a donor egg cycle!
    xo

  8. August 21, 2014 / 11:35 am

    We have been canning but not as much as you. 30 jars of jam?? DAMN!

    Yay for making the wait list!!

  9. August 21, 2014 / 9:21 pm

    I know, it's kind of crazy. It'll last probably two years though!

  10. August 21, 2014 / 9:21 pm

    Yes! That's right. I need to catch up on her blog.

  11. August 21, 2014 / 9:22 pm

    Thank you! I know, it's kind of fun. When you have the time. It is a TON of work.

  12. August 21, 2014 / 9:23 pm

    Our clinic's fresh cycle is the backup, if this frozen cycle doesn't work out. Hopefully we won't need to use it because this one will be successful. Fingers crossed!

  13. August 21, 2014 / 9:24 pm

    Oh yes, cinnamon definitely makes the jam. 🙂

  14. August 21, 2014 / 9:24 pm

    Yay! Thank you! All of this has been so much work. It's nice to have that part done and over with.

  15. August 21, 2014 / 9:25 pm

    Why thank you dear. 🙂

  16. August 21, 2014 / 9:25 pm

    Thank you! I'm so glad that's done and over with.

  17. August 22, 2014 / 9:48 am

    This is totally random and I'm not even a regular reader (just got directed here today), but if you're coming to San Antonio (I would guess not, but I'll put it out there anyway) and would like to have an evening of chatting and relaxing, I would be happy to host you. :.) I think you can see my e-mail address (?) since I'm commenting from my Google account, so let me know if you'd like. I'm just another vet of the whole infertility thing who is also an extrovert and likes to connect with other people.

  18. August 24, 2014 / 12:54 am

    Hi there – are you familiar with parents via egg donation? http://www.pved.org

    We are a non profit based organization based out of Oregon. Our community is private and safe.
    Come let us support you through your journey to parenthood 🙂

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